The title should be either "The mama bear has arrived" or "shut your freaking pie holes" Decisions, Decisions... Im a bit irate right now and dont see any calm in my near future.... People really suck-The bad part is that the people you should count on and provide unconditional love etc, arent always the count on type.. Im in a rage right now.. 2 things, well maybe more, not sure.. LOL the day is young.. So, im not sure if any of you know, but our daughter Cassidy is Gay.. Doesnt affect how we love her IN THE LEAST.. We adore her same today as the day she was born... I honestly dont care about peoples opinions on this, because this isnt about them, its about OUR daughter, who is a decent, loving, giving and kind person... She had some family members say some not so nice things to her, not about being gay, but about her weight-WTF she is a size 6.. REALLY? Yeah, I could see where that would be just a huge heffer.... Same people HAVE said things about her lifestyle to others and that has crossed my line in the sand... It isnt OUR place to judge a darn thing about people loving whomever they love.. That is between them and GOD and only him.. She is OUR daughter and we love love love her... I think , no IM SURE our kids all know we love them unconditionally and that has been proven time and time and time again.. So the weight thing pisses me off because this is why girls get eating disorders.. Its little cracks here and there, but as a person who suffered from an eating disorder(quietly and only 1 person really knew) I can tell you that comments make girls think "hmmm, maybe I am fat" Okay, ill just lose a few lbs, then it becomes a few more and a few more and before you know it, a broken person... Its just funny for "people" to make comments about her weight when me and Sal arent right there.. Its easy to "pick" on others when their protectors arent around.. I guess distancing themselves from their family is what they enjoy doing, because they have done it... for the final time, for me.. Cass, we love you and think you are great and soo very glad you are happy and enjoying life.. Couldnt ask for anything more for you.. You look FABULOUS and gorgeous.. Kisses, wuge and smooches!